Pegging is a very common sexual practice in the world of domination, although it is not exclusive to this realm, sexuality is a universe full of possibilities, where every perverse mind has the chance to explore new forms of pleasure. Within this vast world, pegging sparks immense curiosity, breaks taboos, and challenges traditional norms around sexual roles and gender.
Today, I’m going to tell you a little more about pegging: What is it? How can you get started? and even How to properly prepare to practice it? So stay with me to find out.
What is pegging?
Pegging is a sexual practice where a woman uses a strap-on harness with a dildo to penetrate a man anally. This practice is a form of anal sex in which the person receiving the penetration is the man, and the person performing it is the woman.
Pegging can be a way to explore sexuality and intimacy, and it can be especially beneficial for those looking to experience new sensations and pleasures. Some of the reasons why people might enjoy pegging include:
- Anal stimulation: The anus is a highly sensitive area and is close to the male prostate, which can be very pleasurable when properly stimulated.
- The feeling of power and control: The woman performing pegging may feel more powerful and in control, which can be highly arousing.
- Exploring sexuality: Pegging can be a way to explore sexuality and discover new forms of pleasure and intimacy.
It is important to emphasize that pegging must be practiced safely and consensually. This means that both individuals must agree to engage in the practice and take steps to avoid any risks or harm. Some safety measures to consider include:
- Use an appropriate lubricant to reduce friction and discomfort.
- Use a dildo or strap-on that is comfortable and safe for both.
- Communicate openly about each person’s boundaries and desires.
- Use clean toys to avoid any infections or the transmission of diseases.
In summary, pegging can be especially beneficial for people looking to experience new sensations and pleasures. However, it is important to practice pegging safely and consensually to avoid any risks or harm.
Pegging in FemDom
As I mentioned earlier, pegging is a practice very common in BDSM and is highly rewarding for both participants in the dynamic. For the Domina, it is a way to exercise power and control over her submissive. The sensation of penetrating and dominating the submissive is a way to assert her authority and superiority.
On the other hand, for the submissive, pegging is a way to surrender and submit to the Mistress’s will, which can be a liberating and pleasurable experience. The sensation of being penetrated can be a way to relinquish control and let go, in addition to the pleasure it provides.
If pegging is becoming increasingly common and popular, it’s for a reason—it’s a practice that both participants in the dynamic can enjoy, as it offers an exciting way to explore power dynamics and submission. However, before venturing into this practice, it is essential for both parties to openly and honestly discuss their desires, expectations, and boundaries.
Tips for Beginners
For those looking to explore the world of pegging, preparation and patience are essential. Whether you’re the one performing or receiving penetration, taking small steps, respecting boundaries, and maintaining constant communication with your partner are key to ensuring the experience is both enjoyable and safe. Below are some specific tips for both roles.
For Her:
- Practice with the harness first: If it’s your first time using one, get comfortable before doing it with your partner. Try putting it on, walk around a bit, and get used to its weight and movements. This will give you confidence when you start.
- Communication is key: Ask your partner how they’re feeling. If something isn’t going well, adapt, but without losing your position of control. Pay attention to verbal and non-verbal cues, and ensure that both of you are enjoying the experience.
- Lubricant is your best ally: Use generous amounts of lubricant, always water-based or silicone-based. Don’t skimp; the more glide, the better. Reapply as needed—no rush, but no hesitation either.
- Start with comfortable positions: Some positions are better for beginners, such as doggy style or modified missionary. These will allow you to have more control over the rhythm and better observe your partner’s reactions.
For Him:
- Don’t get ahead of yourself: I’ve seen plenty of people wanting to try toys the size of an anaconda, only to find they can’t even handle a finger. Take it slow, start small, and gradually work your way up. This isn’t a race—it’s an experience to be enjoyed and gradually mastered.
- Hygiene is a must: Clean yourself thoroughly before practicing pegging. When I say clean, I mean cleaning the rectum internally. This not only avoids unpleasant moments but also reduces the risk of discomfort or injuries. That’s where enemas come in; I’ll explain how to use them later.
- Lubrication at all times: It’s not optional. Apply plenty of lubricant to avoid tears or irritation. If you’re highly sensitive, there are lubricants with anesthetics that can help reduce initial discomfort. Consider this option if needed.
How to Clean Yourself for Pegging?
It’s well known that the anus is primarily an exit rather than an entrance. To avoid unpleasant moments, discomfort, or unnecessary pain, it’s essential to perform a pre-peg enema. This typically involves using an enema with liquid that is introduced into the rectum to remove any residue.
There are different types of enemas on the market, but I recommend a simple, classic bulb enema—no need to overcomplicate it. These are easily available nowadays in pharmacies, stores like sex shops, and of course, online. It’s important to choose a bulb with a detachable nozzle, as this makes cleaning and maintenance much easier after each use.
Tips for a Proper Enema:
- Prepare saline solution with warm distilled water, as it mimics the composition of human body fluids. This is a safer and more effective option for enemas.
- Fill your enema bulb with the liquid, insert it into the rectum, and release the liquid inside. Hold it for a few minutes, and soon you’ll feel the urge to go to the bathroom.
- Repeat the process 3 or 4 times, until the water that comes out is clean. It’s important to expel all the water to avoid any surprises later.
Remember that while enemas can be helpful for preparing for pegging, they should not be performed too frequently. Overuse of enemas can cause irritation and damage to the rectum and intestines. If you have any doubts or concerns about how to perform an enema or experience any issues afterward, it is important to consult a doctor. Your health and well-being should always be your priority, so don’t hesitate to seek professional advice if needed.
Conclusion
Pegging is a sexual practice that not only allows you to explore new forms of pleasure but also strengthens emotional connection and trust with your partner. As a Domina, I know that consent and communication are essential to fully enjoy any intimate practice, and pegging is no exception.
Openly discussing desires, expectations, and boundaries not only prevents misunderstandings but also strengthens the bond between those involved. Exploring the world of pegging requires curiosity, patience, and a willingness to learn, but the reward is a transformative and deeply pleasurable experience.
In this game, there are no strict rules beyond the ones you set yourselves. Dare to break taboos, discover new sensations, and most importantly, enjoy the power and connection that this practice can offer.
